Inner Voice: Defensiveness

If you feel yourself starting to get defensive, or you start to feel persecuted, get curious. Why are you feeling that way? What is your relationship with that person? What exactly are they doing in their lane, and what are you doing in yours?

Source: Stop Being Defensive episode of the UFYB podcast.

Story: I Will Stop When I Get Full

How was it then?

There is a particular noodle dish that I liked, but restaurants always served too many noodles and too much broth. I could never finish all of it. And I always felt full after eating about half of the serving, but I never stopped there. I always kept on eating, one more bite, then another. Eventually, I would get to the point of actual bursting and I couldn’t eat another bite. But even though I had already figured out that I was full about ten bites before that, and even though I was having a conversation in my head about the fact that I was full and should stop eating, I could not stop eating.

~ A Food Addict

How is it now?

I eat my portion of food and it is enough. I never get that feeling of being too full, and I don’t have to try to apply the brakes in the middle of a meal.

~ A Recovering Food Addict

12 Steps: Overeaters Anonymous (OA)

Overeaters Anonymous (OA) is a twelve-step program for recovering from unhealthy relationships with food and body image. (It is not specifically about food addiction.)